"Females don’t care if a guy has a girl, so men stop using that as an excuse, females DO NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOUR GIRL IF YOUR SHOWING THEM ATTENTION, LIKING THEIR SHIT , TEXTING THEM & CALLING THEM, THEY DO NOT JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS, STOP IT.
I’m a female, i know.
Niggas think girls are never after them, & a compliment won’t work them up. Females like that shit, so why even entertain them. If your man compliments extra sideline chicks no matter who they are, & writes these females constantly, he’s on some other shit. I’ve asked about 5 guys in long lasting relationships who are popular guys, & even they say its wrong.
No nigga in a relationship should be speaking to girls more than he speaks to niggas. The only girl he should be texting & calling is YOU. If he doesn’t like that, can’t force himself to stop, he has too many excuses for it, or he feels bored so he does it, he ain’t ready for a relationship with YOU!
In a relationship you gotta force yourself to cut all these bitchs off, even if they are attractive or popular. If not, WHY THE FUCK U WITH YOUR GIRL? NOBODY GOT TIME FOR EXTRA BITCHS. U can’t think u low & do it , it’s just rude.
Males, Your job isn’t to make females like u, so whoever put that in your head WILL NEVER HAVE A GOOD HEALTHY LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP. You aint miguel, stop it. Your job is to scare them & make them jealous of your girl. u needa make them respect her . if you facetimin, callin, textin, complimenting, YOUR DISRESPECTING YOUR GIRL IN FRONT OF THESE FEMALES ! what kind of nigga will disrespect his girl like that? Listen, These girls will fuck with u regardless, yes ,even without compliments. U dont needa conpliment them to get them to fuck with u. do you & post your pics & take the compliments. dont give them.
You dont needa be their man & comfort them when their down & sad when they tweet about it or post a status.lol you aint dr. phil, YOU HAVE A GIRL, SHE SHOULD BE THE ONLY GIRL U NEEDA COMFORT & COMPLIMENT WHEN SHES DOWN, not no extra bitch. let them handle it on their own. stop tryna be jesus.
You have a girl, u gotta make girls scared to hit u up, you can’t go hit them up & give them attention u should be giving your girl.
Your girl can’t be a good woman if you not respecting her enough . If u not putting females in place, regardless if they got a big ass, nice eyes, cool tatts, or dope personality, you are on disrespectful fuck. honestly you dont need a girlfriend, you still are infatuated by other females, u fucked up. You keep your compliments to yourself in your head, if u don’t want her doing the same. Don’t expect your girl to be a grown woman & a respectful wife if your giving other woman that time of day & attention she deserves. If you can’t speak to your girl & find her annoying or not cool enough or pretty enough or not fun to talk to, WHY IS SHE YOUR GIRL?
has nothing to do with insecurities. Its just very disrespectful. Every girl has their insecurities. talking to these extra bitchs wont empower her nor make her feel on top nor make her secure nor make her confident. Then don’t ask why she doesnt make u feel good or on top. SHE WONT IF YOU DONT. IF YOU CANNOT SEE YOURSELF CUTTING GIRLS OFF, BEING MEAN WHEN THEY COME ON TO YOU, EVEN IF THEY ARE GODDESSES OR YOUR TYPE, IF U FEEL THE NEED TO HIT ANOTHER CHICK UP & TRADE NUMBERS, OR YOU REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO COMPLIMENT & COMFORT OTHER FEMALES, YOU JUST ARE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN.YOU WILL NEVER FIND A GIRL OKAY WITH THAT."

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Anonymous said:

Yeah about joining, i am a 4'10 tall female only 17 still in high school, and im just trying to see if im ready mentally and physically to join.. Just sort of want some tips for women ? Like attitude wise ..


sinnersleadtheway:

Go into it like a game. Tell yourself you’re the best and you’re out to beat everyone there. Trust me you sound a lot like me when I joined. You can do it. Don’t doubt yourself and you’ll be fine.